After having kids, it's common for couples to feel like the spark has dimmed. However, with effort and intention, it's possible to reignite that flame and bring back the romance. Here's an example from my own experience:
When my husband and I had our first child, we were so consumed with the demands of parenthood that we forgot about nurturing our relationship. We realized that we needed to make a conscious effort to bring back the spark. So, we started by carving out time each week for a date night. It could be as simple as watching a movie at home or going out for dinner.
We also made an effort to surprise each other with little romantic gestures. For instance, my husband surprised me with breakfast in bed and I surprised him with a homemade candlelit dinner. These gestures may seem small, but they made a big impact on our relationship.
We also made an effort to touch each other more often, such as holding hands or giving hugs. We made sure to express our love and appreciation for each other every day.
By making these small changes, we were able to rekindle the romance and intimacy in our relationship. We felt more connected and in love than ever before.
In conclusion, it's important for couples to prioritize their relationship and make an effort to bring back the spark after having kids. By carving out time for each other, surprising each other with romantic gestures, and expressing love and appreciation, couples can reignite the flame and enjoy a happy and fulfilling relationship.