It's hard to believe how much my life has changed in just five years. Back then, I was a college student pursuing an MBA, dreaming of the high-paying job that would make all my financial dreams come true. Today, I am a stay-at-home mom, and let me tell you, it's a whole different ball game. I'm juggling so many things - taking care of my 9-month-old, managing my house, trying to keep my sanity intact. Gone are the days when I would strut around campus in my trendy outfits, constantly changing my hairstyle. These days, I'm lucky if I manage to brush my hair and put on a pair of pants that aren't covered in baby drool.
I used to be obsessed with myself, always checking myself out in the mirror, making sure I looked just right. Now, I avoid the mirror like the plague. The bags under my eyes and the dark circles that have taken up permanent residence are not a pretty sight. Plus, my clothes are either stained with baby food or too small for me thanks to the extra pounds I've gained since my pregnancy. Let's just say that fashion is not a priority these days.
Don't get me wrong, I love being a mom, but let's be real - it's not all sunshine and rainbows. I used to go for walks and do 100 squats a day, but now, I can barely make it from my bedroom to the kitchen without tripping over a toy or getting intercepted by a tiny human who demands my attention. And music? Forget about it. The only songs I know now are the ones that come from my baby's toys, and trust me, they're not exactly the Billboard Top 100.
Sometimes, I wonder if my life will ever go back to the way it was before. But then, I look at my little one, and I know that I wouldn't want it any other way. Sure, my life may be chaotic, and my wardrobe may consist solely of stretchy pants, but there is no greater joy than watching my baby grow and learn. And let's be real, who needs a fancy job or a trendy wardrobe when you have the best job in the world - being a mom?
So, to all the new moms out there, I raise my coffee mug to you. Let's embrace the spit-up stained shirts, the messy buns, and the constant exhaustion. We may not be the most glamorous or well-rested bunch, but we are warriors. We are moms, and that's something to be proud of. Cheers to the adventure that is motherhood!
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Well said & well written. Enjoy ur motherhood and gain experience .